Come Boldly, Obtain Mercy, Find Grace
Theme Verses:
Hebrews 4:14-16
Purpose of Object
Lesson:
To give hope and encouragement to believers as they face temptations
and challenges.
This is one of my favorite lessons to teach, not only because it’s
so visual and interactive, but also because of its message. And, its
message is particularly effective with teens and young adults
because it clearly demonstrates how they can deal with the
temptations and challenges they face day in and day out. It’s a
terrific lesson if you don’t use the visual effects, but it’s so
much more meaningful if you use them.
Getting Started:
The first step of the lesson is to
establish the major chronological milestones of life, such as:
Birth |
High School |
Parenthood |
Preschool |
College/Tech School |
Grandparent |
Elementary School |
Career/Vocation |
Retirement |
Middle School |
Marriage |
Death
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There are benefits to listing the
educational milestones in the small increments listed above rather
than just listing “school.” Those will become clear as you progress
through the lesson. Also, as you’ll note, the adult years are very
broad and listed in a very traditional order, but your group can
list them in whichever order they prefer.
I recommend preprinting these
milestones on long, vertical paper (or poster board) strips in a
bright color. Having them preprinted helps manage your time so that
you don’t have to take the time to write out the responses during
the study. If the room you’re in allows, consider hanging a light
rope or heavy string clothesline style across the room (and don’t
forget the clothespins). If that’s not possible, use masking tape to
stick the paper strips onto the widest wall.
As the facilitator, you can proceed
with this first section in a variety of ways. One option is to
pre-hang the paper-strip milestones prior to the start of the Bible
study. Be sure to spread out the milestones, leaving plenty of space
between each. Another option is to hang only the words “birth” and
“death” at the opposite ends of your designated timeline. Both of
these methods establish visual intrigue and curiosity about the
lesson. Or, you can wait until you begin the lesson to hang any of
them.
Step One:
If you use either of the latter two options above,
begin the lesson by asking the students to assist you in
establishing a typical person’s lifeline by naming the various life
milestones. If you distribute the preprinted paper strips prior to
the lesson or as students enter the room, ask them to come forward
one by one to hang the milestone where they think it fits on the
lifeline. Or, you can hang them as they call out their answers. Be
prepared with some blank paper strips on which to write milestones
they suggest in addition to those you preprinted.
Step Two:
After the milestones have been hung, ask your class participants for
another set of words/phrases. Ask them to name activities in which
teens and adults alike are tempted and tested. Ask them to also
include societal pressures, challenges and life-changing events they
might possibly have to face (or have already faced) during their
lifetime. Possible responses are listed below. You might want to
prepare another set of preprinted paper strips with many of these
words/phrases written on them. Consider printing these on a
different color from the color you used for the milestones.
Temptations, Trials, Challenges and Life Changing Events
Drugs |
Disrespecting authority |
Job losses |
Smoking |
Sibling Rivalry |
Career changes |
Alcohol |
Bullying |
Unfaithfulness of spouse |
Cheating |
Non-acceptance from classmates |
Death of born/unborn child |
Lying |
School Drop Out |
Sick or disabled child |
Premarital Sex |
Unwanted pregnancy |
Peer pressure |
Cult Following |
Music Choices |
Financial Security |
Rebelliousness |
Debt |
Divorce/Separation |
Music Choices |
Home Purchase |
Remarriage |
Clothing styles |
Home School Children |
Death or illness of spouse |
Poor choice of friendships/relationships |
Rebellious
Children |
Accidents/Disabilities |
Vulgar Language |
Broken relationships |
Parenting grandchildren |
Rejection of God/religion |
Job promotions |
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As a participant volunteers a
temptation or a life-changing event, ask him/her to hang the event
(or direct you where to hang it) at the point on the lifeline in
which that temptation, challenge or event will first become an issue
for them. One of the sad evidences of this Bible study is that the
temptations and trials start showing up earlier and earlier on the
life line. Not long ago, issues such as alcohol, smoking,
pre-marital sex and drugs would have been posted at some point
during the high school years. Now those temptations are prevalent
among middle schoolers, and in many instances, even among elementary
school-aged children. Whether you hang the words/phrases at the
point on the lifeline when they first become an issue, or when the
temptations, etc. are at their peak, it’s critical that the
participants understand that those issues, though posted in middle
school, will most likely be temptations they will face throughout
their lifetime. Once something is a temptation or challenge, it will
continue to be a temptation and challenge in their lives, regardless
of age.
It’s certainly not necessary to
list every single item in the lists above. They are there to give
you suggestions. As in the first section, I suggest you have as many
of the words and phrases preprinted to save time and to show
preparedness; and if your participants give responses for which you
don’t have a preprinted sheet, be prepared with some blank strips on
which to write their suggestions. If your participants fail to
mention any temptations or challenges you deem crucial to the
lesson, or specifically relevant to those in the group, you will
want to be sure to hang those particular issues yourself before
concluding this section.
At this point, the life timeline
should be hanging in one color scheme, with the life temptations and
challenges in a different color scheme interspersed in between. I
hope you and your students find it as interesting to see this
display of life’s potential challenges as I do. Though life may be
chaotic at times, this process somehow gives order to it. We can
expect some things to happen at certain times of our lives, while
the unexpected can happen to us unawares. Yet, it is possible to be
prepared even for the unexpected by how we prepare ourselves
spiritually.
Step Three:
The next thing I do is gauge the average age of my audience as to
when they trusted in Christ. Depending on the general age of your
audience, you may want to ask for a show of hands of who trusted in
Jesus Christ as Savior before a particular age, such as before 10
years old, or between, let’s say, 10 and 20, or between 20 and 30,
etc. If you know your group well, and it’s a fairly small group, you
could ask each member the specific age they became a believer, but
be careful not to embarrass anyone who may not have the assuredness
of their salvation. Remember, the average age doesn’t have to be
derived at through exact or scientific means. It’s just a point for
discussion. Once I determine an estimated average age, I hang a
large red, precut cross on the timeline to represent that age. When
I teach high schoolers, that average age is generally around 12 to
13, so I attach the cross between the middle school and high school
markers. Obviously, the older the age group being taught, it’s
likely the higher that average age.
Lesson Launch:
I think one of the things we so easily overlook when studying the
Bible is not grasping Jesus’ own life span. When reading through
scripture, we only see glimpses into His life. We read about Him at
His birth, then when He’s twelve in Jerusalem, and bam! The next
thing we know he’s a 30-year old carpenter who is now beginning an
earthly ministry. We don’t read about the boy playing tag with his
brothers and sisters, or chasing a pet dog. We don’t see the
teenager or young man who may have been attracted to a girl. We
don’t see the young man who had to watch his close friends and
siblings get married and start their families. We don’t know how He
felt about that. Though 100% deity, He was also 100% male, with all
the testosterone and hormonal drives as all the rest of the human
male gender. We are told in Hebrews 4:15 that He “was in all
points tempted like as we are.” He faced the same temptations
that we face. I have no choice but to take that verse literally.
That means He was tempted to cheat at the games He played as a
child. As He went through puberty, He had the same sexual drives as
the other young men. At times, He was probably tempted to lie to His
parents. Though we find him popular as Messiah because those He
healed followed him around, He may not have been popular as a child
or teenager. Because He was a “goody goody,” He might have been
shunned by his siblings or neighbors. He might have been bullied by
neighbor boys, or not felt accepted by the “in” group. Maybe He
would have preferred hanging out with his friends, instead of
helping his dad in the carpentry shop. That situation may have
tempted Him to “cop an attitude” about how life was so unfair.
Hebrews 4:15 says he was tempted in all points as we are, so I have
to believe that He really was, or else the Scripture is heresy.
The end of that verse indicates
that though He was tempted in all these ways, He didn’t sin. That’s
good news for us, because otherwise He wouldn’t have been worthy to
die for our sins. That’s good for us, too, in the fact that since He
overcame all the temptations we face today, and will face in our
future, He has the wisdom, the power and the know how to face those
temptations, trials and challenges head on and not give in.
Philippians 3:10 speaks of knowing Christ, and the power of His
resurrection. Even though this verse speaks primarily of suffering,
it still tells me that I can know, I can experience, I can have
knowledge, and I can have access to all the power and glory involved
in Jesus’ raising up from the dead. Hallelujah!!!! All the atom
bombs and nuclear warheads of the world don’t pack that much power.
Jesus Christ has all the tools in which to overcome temptation and
the calmness to pass through trials, and He has made that available
to me and to you. Does that excite you? Do I hear an AMEN?!!
The significance of emphasizing
this point is this: A close look at the timeline reveals that a
great many of the temptations, trials and challenges we will face
during our lifetime will happen AFTER we become saved. This is
particularly true for those groups who are younger in age, and for
those who trusted in Christ early in life. I especially like to
point out to teenagers who are believers that they have access to
all of Jesus’ know how and power for just about every major life
event that will happen to them during their lifetime. Not only can
they visually grasp that their salvation holds tremendous advantages
to them over those who don’t know Jesus as Savior, but they would be
a fool not to tap into those advantages.
You’ll recall earlier in the lesson
that I suggested stressing that once something is a temptation or
challenge, it will always be a temptation and prevalent in their
lives, regardless of age. While those who trust in Christ early in
life can draw on His power to flee those temptations and hopefully
never get trapped in their snare in the first place, those who trust
in Christ later in life can now draw on His power to overcome any
hold those sins have over them. First Corinthians 10:13 is a great
companion verse to Hebrews 4:15. It says, “There hath no
temptation taken you but such as is common to man; but God is
faithful, who will not suffer (permit) you to be tempted
above that ye are able, but will, with the temptation, also make a
way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.” Because Jesus
personally overcame every possible temptation Satan can throw at a
person, He knows what it will take for us to overcome them. His Word
(sword) is a primary source of power. The indwelling Holy Spirit is
another. His Word promises that nothing will ever be thrown at us
for which He has not already provided the way of escape “because
greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world” (1
John 4:4). Do I hear another AMEN?!!
After driving home this point, I
continue on to Hebrews 4:16 that says that we can go “boldly to
the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help
in time of need.” I put on my “actor’s” hat at this point to
illustrate and dramatize how that scripture tells us to approach the
Lord. It doesn’t say we’re to speak in a small, humble voice. It
doesn’t say we’re to be meek or mousy. He doesn’t say whisper a
prayer. Hebrews 4:16 states that we can go BOLDLY to the
throne of grace. I’m not timid, so I get verbally loud at this point
to emphasize how we’re to approach the Lord. The thesaurus feature
on my computer gives me the following words to describe boldly:
Adventuresome |
Abrupt |
Over Confident |
Attention
Getting |
Arrogant |
Positive
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Energetic |
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When I need the Lord’s help in
dealing with temptations and trials, I am told by Scripture that I
can be BOLD in my request for help. I know that in real life, if I
ever find myself drowning, or in a burning building, or in an
overturned car, I won’t whisper out my cries for help. I will put
out every ounce of energy within me to shout “HELP” to
attract the attention of passers by. Hebrews 4:16 gives us
permission to do just that for the Lord’s help. Ephesians 3:12
emphasizes the confidence we can have in crying out to the Lord. It
says, “In whom (speaking of Christ Jesus, our Lord, vs. 11) we have
boldness and access with confidence by the faith of him.” In
addition to boldness, we have access to Christ. He is available.
This access and boldness have been provided to us by the blood of
Jesus (Hebrews 10:19). Jesus paid the price for the privilege of our
seeking His help. Therefore, we should not take this lightly.
Unfortunately, we don’t always see
our spiritual battles and challenges as life threatening as a
burning building, so we’re not as apt to cry out for the Lord’s help
in the midst of those crises. Instead, we face them spiritually
unprepared and in our own power. More often than not, those results
are disastrous. To illustrate this, look at the battle the
Israelites faced in front of the walls of Jericho. While the
assignment of leveling the walls, let alone getting inside Jericho,
seemed insurmountable, the Lord’s intention was for His power, not
the Israelites’ power, to accomplish the feat. In submission to the
Lord’s instructions, we see in Joshua 6:20-21 that the priests blew
trumpets and the Israelites shouted with a great shout, causing the
great walls of Jericho to fall down flat. Note that they didn’t play
a harp, or hum a soft melody. God told them to BLOW their
horns. He told them to SHOUT with their voices. In other
words, He told them to be BOLD and make a lot of noise. The
Israelites’ obedience resulted in the walls of Jericho being utterly
destroyed. While you may see this as a real stretch of the principle
we find in Hebrews 4:16, is it really? The Israelites received a
directive from the Lord to be bold and to make a lot of noise, and
He responded by fulfilling a promise. In Hebrews 4:16, we’re also
given a directive from the Lord, and He says to come BOLDLY unto the
throne of grace. He has promised that when we do that, He will
respond with help in our time of need.
In the middle of Joshua 6, God gave
the Israelites another directive. He told them specifically what
goods they could and could not bring out of Jericho (vss. 17-19,
24). Anything not on God’s “okay” list of things to bring out was
referred to as the “accursed thing.” In Joshua 7: 1 we learn that
Achan didn’t adhere to God’s Word. He took the accursed thing while
plundering Jericho. After the amazing victory Israel enjoyed over
Jericho, Joshua got a little cocky; and without consulting the Lord,
he sent out troops to attack Ai. The number of soldiers he sent out,
in his mind, was more than enough to guarantee Israel victory over
Ai. What happened next was disastrous for Israel. Had Joshua
consulted with God, and asked for His help over Ai, the Lord would
have had an opportunity to inform Joshua about Achan’s sin, and the
matter would have been resolved prior to going into battle. Instead,
Joshua decided to go into battle based on Israel’s power, not the
Lord’s. The result? The troops suffered a humiliating defeat. Joshua
then went to the Lord, and questioned Him with a poor attitude, “how
could you let this happen to us?”
How often have I said those words
to the Lord myself! I have blamed God for my troubles and problems,
and questioned Him as to His whereabouts when my life seemed to be
upside down and miserable. Like with Joshua, the Lord had to tell me
that my troubles and problems had nothing to do with Him, but they
were due to my disobedience and my failure to adhere to His Word. I
had failed to come to Him for help in times of need, during times of
temptation, which resulted in my failing miserably in my own power.
Unfortunately, like Joshua, many of
us cry out for God’s help after we’ve gotten ourselves in a mess. We
ignore His Word, His directives, and do things our own way. When
we’re up to our necks in trouble and about to drown in our own
self-centeredness, that’s when we think about coming boldly to His
throne of grace. We hit a brick wall, like the walls of Jericho, and
we finally realize there is no other way out than to call on the
Lord. We send up an S.O.S. call for help after we’re in trouble. We
minimize the price of His blood that gives us this privilege, and we
make empty promises that if He’ll just get us out of this mess,
we’ll serve Him better. Fortunately for us, as in the case of the
Israelites, the Lord is faithful and will forgive. He can clean up
our lives, but not without consequences. Even as believers, we can’t
live any way we want without paying a penalty for our actions. When
we live according to our standards, instead of God’s, the results
are always less than satisfactory.
That’s why God included verses such
as Hebrews 4:15 & 16 and Ephesians 3:12 in the Scriptures. He wanted
us to know that He understands the temptations and struggles we will
encounter, and He has offered us His help. If Jesus’ coming to the
earth had no other value than to die on the cross, He could easily
have come to the earth as the equivalent of a 30-year-old man to
begin His ministry. He could have descended from the clouds in the
sight of thousands, leaving no doubt as to His deity and power.
Instead of spending 33 years in this world, He could have
successfully accomplished the teaching of the disciples and work of
the cross in 3 years. But it was significant that He understand all
of life’s struggles, the temptations and pressures. He needed to be
that toddler who felt the physical hurt of a scraped knee. He needed
to be that ten-year-old boy who was ridiculed and bullied on the
playground. He needed to mourn the loss of an earthly father. He
needed to say “no” to sexual temptation. He needed friends to tempt
Him to rebel against authority. Because of His life experiences, He
can make the claim that He understands anything and everything we
will ever encounter in our lifetime. His victories in being an
overcomer can also be our victories.
After the Israelites suffered the
consequences of their sin, the Lord not only forgave them and
restored them back into His fellowship, but He gave them victory
over Ai. While this type of victory is sweet, how much sweeter the
victories are when we do things the way God wants them to be done in
the first place. How much sweeter when we obey His Word. How much
sweeter when we approach Him for help, instead of doing things our
way. Ultimately, it’s our choice.
We can choose to take advantage of
Jesus’ experiences, His understanding, His wisdom and His power as
soon as we face the crossroads of decision-making. We can choose to
depend on Him during spiritual struggles and temptations. Or, we can
choose to depend on ourselves and on our own power. Looking at the
two choices, there really is no comparison. It should be a
no-brainer. Unfortunately, many of us ignore God’s Word, His help
and His throne of grace; instead, we give into the tug of our lusts,
wants and desires.
First Peter 5:8 & 9 (see
Commentary) stresses God’s desire for us to be vigilant and resist
steadfast when encountering the devil. A critical aspect of
accomplishing that is to put on the armor of God each and every day
to protect and arm ourselves from the devil’s wiles. That’s one key
method of achieving victory over many of the temptations and
challenges we face on a daily basis. There are other temptations we
may encounter for which God gives a different directive. For those
He says, “FLEE!” In 1 Corinthians 10:14, we’re told to flee
from idolatry. In 1 Timothy 6, beginning in verse 6, a number of
temptations are listed, concluding with the directive in verse 11,
“...flee these things, and follow after righteousness...” In
2 Timothy 2:22 we are told to “Flee youthful lusts, but follow
righteousness...” When encountering any of these temptations,
God didn’t say sit and think about them. He didn’t say hang around.
He didn’t say leisurely stroll away from them. He said, “FLEE!”
I interpret that to mean, “Turn your back on the temptation and get
away from it as fast as you can run.” It means, “Recognize the
temptation as spiritually deadly and run for your life!” God knows
that those temptations are especially alluring, and He wants you to
get away from their attraction as fast and as far as possible.
As you teach this lesson, the time
restraints may prevent you from using the illustrations in Joshua,
and that’s okay. But if you have time, they vividly demonstrate the
opposite results of obeying and disobeying the Lord. Hopefully
you’ll know the participants in your group well enough to know which
point(s) in this lesson will have the most affect on them, and
therefore, which ones to emphasize.
Optional
Conclusion
One final point you can make with the timeline is to ask the group’s
participants to now remove all the temptations and any other
challenges that could be eliminated if they just obeyed God’s Word
and His directives of to how He wants them to live. The number of
items they remove can drastically alter the chart, making a dramatic
visual to demonstrate the value of heeding God’s Word, and how so
many of life’s challenges can be eliminated if they choose to please
the Lord. If they are conservative in the items they remove, next
you can ask them to detach any additional challenges over which they
can have victory if they choose to go boldly to God’s throne grace
in a time of need. These two questions will not eliminate everything
they will encounter in their lives, because trials such as the death
of a family member, job loss, sickness, or purchasing a home are not
usually based on a lack of obedience. But they are trials and
challenges for which God’s mercy and grace, or Godly
decision-making, can certainly help them endure them, and give God
glory through them. As Christ told Paul in 2 Corinthians 12:9, “My
grace is sufficient for thee; for my strength is made perfect in
weakness.”
While the Lord never promised that
a believer’s life would be a bed of roses, His Word, His directives
and His grace are sufficient to see us through anything and
everything we will ever encounter in this lifetime. The choice of
how we respond to what we have learned is summed up best in Joshua
24:15:
“...Choose you
this day whom ye will serve...”
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